So I spent the day on the wiring. You need to use a real de-pinning tool like in the documentation. The rings of cheap stamped metal keys will not work. Once I did that things got better. I de-pinned a connector like the E4 connector with about a 60% firrst try rate and 10% 10x try rate. There is no point in being able to see what you are doing it is all feel. Starting with the black E4, however, like I did is especially not good. I got everything done up to the splices for the E4 connector. I trashed my E4 connector and will need a new one which arrives Monday. I did manage to get the plug through the grommet without the tool mentioned in the video. I used some long relatively small hose pliers. I also, lubricated the inside of the grommet with just a smidge if wd40 to help things glide through. All in all, I think that is the one thing that looked easier when I did it than in the video. So with luck my crimps will go well and I will finish the wiring harness on Monday. This one took a while but it is easy, indoor, kitchen table, type work. About 6 hours for a duffer like me, 4 hours if you know what you are doing. No point in rushing this as it will make or break the install.
50+ degrees tomorrow, so I am going to tackle the transmission and start putting the engine together. Cold and snow next weekend so I may wait to do the actual install. There is no hurry at this poinbt as the tires need 50+ degrees just to have wieght on them.