This thread'll be an interesting test of the "small convertible=gay" stereotype. I'm on another car forum and of the almost 50 Miata owners of all generations, only one is gay. I'm neither, merely curious (not that way).
I think this forum is a little more grown up than to poke or make fun of someone because of there sexual orientation. It is something however that has been joked about since I have been on this forum (ie bus station jokes). But it does take alot of guts to do on a car forum that is generally associated to have a male gender bias.
Does metro-sexual count? While I am only into women, I do live about a mile from Wilton Manors (the most notoiously gay community in South Florida). About 1/4th of the residents in my townhome development are gay. I have to say, they are all great neighbors--friendly and considerate...
I apologize in advance for all of us who tend to make "hairdresser's car" jokes. It really is meant more to poke fun at those who would stereotype others based on what they drive; but it is really not very sensitive... just please know that there is no bad intention behind it.