Just wanted to chime in here with some personal experience to help you out. First of all, don't do the 16x8 with 0+ offset. It's gonna look bad. I know what you're looking for and that size isn't what you want. Don't do anything less than +20 offset (I'd recommend at least 25) or else you're gonna have major poke, and not the kind you want. When I was first contemplating doing this I went to two good friends of mine who are into the "stance" scene. Both have perfectly flush cars (350z/sti) and I trust them as they've spent a lot of time researching this kind of stuff.
If you're looking for wheels that will give you a good look like that I'd recommend rota grid offroads, I believe they come in 16x8 +20 and they look great. There's a member on here named Pomidified (or something like that, it's been too long) that has them and I talked to him about his. On the forums here he got good comments even from tough critics. You're gonna have to shave just a tad bit off your brake caliper to make them fit. If you're not comfortable doing that get something else.
If you're wondering what I decided on, I gave up. I realized I rather drive my car the way it was meant to be driven instead of having to worry about speed bumps and bad roads. You're gonna have to get coil overs and some good suspension mods to make sure your car is as "safe" and "reliable" as possible with a cambered and lowered set up. You're also going to have to roll, possibly pull, your fenders and probably remove the fender liners in the front (haven't confirmed this yet, but I'd suspect it). I can only see this being worth it on a show car or on a widebody (both which implies you have money to throw at it).
Just some things to think about from the research I've done in the past. If you're looking for more info I'd recommend you ask forums like stancenation, hellaflush, simplyclean, etc. etc. Those guys will probably more knowledgeable about propert fitment than the guys on here just because most of the guys here enjoy driving their cars the way Toyota made it. Also, if this is your daily driver it's gonna be tough.